Srimad Bhagavatam · Canto 7 · Chapter 14

Ideal Family Life

7.14.1

श्रीयुधिष्ठिर उवाच गृहस्थ एतां पदवीं विधिना येन चाञ्जसा । यायाद्देवऋषे ब्रूहि माद‍ृशो गृहमूढधी: ॥ १ ॥

sri-yudhisthira uvaca grhastha etam padavim vidhina yena canjasa yayad deva-rse bruhi madrso grha-mudha-dhih

Maharaja Yudhisthira inquired from Narada Muni: O my lord, O great sage, kindly explain how we who are staying at home without knowledge of the goal of life may also easily attain liberation, according to the instructions of the Vedas.

7.14.2

श्रीनारद उवाच गृहेष्ववस्थितो राजन्क्रिया: कुर्वन्यथोचिता: । वासुदेवार्पणं साक्षादुपासीत महामुनीन् ॥ २ ॥

sri-narada uvaca grhesv avasthito rajan kriyah kurvan yathocitah vasudevarpanam saksad upasita maha-munin

Narada Muni replied: My dear King, those who stay at home as householders must act to earn their livelihood, and instead of trying to enjoy the results of their work themselves, they should offer these results to Krsna, Vasudeva. How to satisfy Vasudeva in this life can be perfectly understood through the association of great devotees of the Lord.

7.14.3-4

श‍ृण्वन्भगवतोऽभीक्ष्णमवतारकथामृतम् । श्रद्दधानो यथाकालमुपशान्तजनावृत: ॥ ३ ॥ सत्सङ्गाच्छनकै: सङ्गमात्मजायात्मजादिषु । विमुञ्चेन्मुच्यमानेषु स्वयं स्वप्नवदुत्थित: ॥ ४ ॥

srnvan bhagavato ’bhiksnam avatara-kathamrtam sraddadhano yatha-kalam upasanta-janavrtah sat-sangac chanakaih sangam atma-jayatmajadisu vimuncen mucyamanesu svayam svapnavad utthitah

A grhastha must associate again and again with saintly persons, and with great respect he must hear the nectar of the activities of the Supreme Lord and His incarnations as these activities are described in Srimad-Bhagavatam and other Puranas. Thus one should gradually become detached from affection for his wife and children, exactly like a man awakening from a dream.

7.14.5

यावदर्थमुपासीनो देहे गेहे च पण्डित: । विरक्तो रक्तवत्तत्र नृलोके नरतां न्यसेत् ॥ ५ ॥

yavad-artham upasino dehe gehe ca panditah virakto raktavat tatra nr-loke naratam nyaset

While working to earn his livelihood as much as necessary to maintain body and soul together, one who is actually learned should live in human society unattached to family affairs, although externally appearing very much attached.

7.14.6

ज्ञातय: पितरौ पुत्रा भ्रातर: सुहृदोऽपरे । यद्वदन्ति यदिच्छन्ति चानुमोदेत निर्मम: ॥ ६ ॥

jnatayah pitarau putra bhratarah suhrdo ’pare yad vadanti yad icchanti canumodeta nirmamah

An intelligent man in human society should make his own program of activities very simple. If there are suggestions from his friends, children, parents, brothers or anyone else, he should externally agree, saying, Yes, that is all right but internally he should be determined not to create a cumbersome life in which the purpose of life will not be fulfilled.

7.14.7

दिव्यं भौमं चान्तरीक्षं वित्तमच्युतनिर्मितम् । तत्सर्वमुपयुञ्जान एतत्कुर्यात्स्वतो बुध: ॥ ७ ॥

divyam bhaumam cantariksam vittam acyuta-nirmitam tat sarvam upayunjana etat kuryat svato budhah

The natural products created by the Supreme Personality of Godhead should be utilized to maintain the bodies and souls of all living entities. The necessities of life are of three types: those produced from the sky (from rainfall), from the earth (from the mines, the seas or the fields), and from the atmosphere (that which is obtained suddenly and unexpectedly).

7.14.8

यावद् भ्र्रियेत जठरं तावत् स्वत्वं हि देहिनाम् । अधिकं योऽभिमन्येत स स्तेनो दण्डमर्हति ॥ ८ ॥

yavad bhriyeta jatharam tavat svatvam hi dehinam adhikam yo ’bhimanyeta sa steno dandam arhati

One may claim proprietorship to as much wealth as required to maintain body and soul together, but one who desires proprietorship over more than that must be considered a thief, and he deserves to be punished by the laws of nature.

7.14.9

मृगोष्ट्रखरमर्काखुसरीसृप्खगमक्षिका: । आत्मन: पुत्रवत् पश्येत्तैरेषामन्तरं कियत् ॥ ९ ॥

mrgostra-khara-markakhu- sarisrp khaga-maksikah atmanah putravat pasyet tair esam antaram kiyat

One should treat animals such as deer, camels, asses, monkeys, mice, snakes, birds and flies exactly like one’s own son. How little difference there actually is between children and these innocent animals.

7.14.10

त्रिवर्गं नातिकृच्छ्रेण भजेत गृहमेध्यपि । यथादेशं यथाकालं यावद्दैवोपपादितम् ॥ १० ॥

tri-vargam natikrcchrena bhajeta grha-medhy api yatha-desam yatha-kalam yavad-daivopapaditam

Even if one is a householder rather than a brahmacari, a sannyasi or a vanaprastha, one should not endeavor very hard for religiosity, economic development or satisfaction of the senses. Even in householder life, one should be satisfied to maintain body and soul together with whatever is available with minimum endeavor, according to place and time, by the grace of the Lord. One should not engage oneself in ugra-karma.

7.14.11

आश्वाघान्तेऽवसायिभ्य: कामान्संविभजेद्यथा । अप्येकामात्मनो दारां नृणां स्वत्वग्रहो यत: ॥ ११ ॥

asvaghante ’vasayibhyah kaman samvibhajed yatha apy ekam atmano daram nrnam svatva-graho yatah

Dogs, fallen persons and untouchables, including candalas (dog-eaters), should all be maintained with their proper necessities, which should be contributed by the householders. Even one’s wife at home, with whom one is most intimately attached, should be offered for the reception of guests and people in general.

7.14.12

जह्याद् यदर्थे स्वान्प्राणान्हन्याद्वा पितरं गुरुम् । तस्यां स्वत्वं स्‍त्रियां जह्याद्यस्तेन ह्यजितो जित: ॥ १२ ॥

jahyad yad-arthe svan pranan hanyad va pitaram gurum tasyam svatvam striyam jahyad yas tena hy ajito jitah

One so seriously considers one’s wife to be his own that he sometimes kills himself for her or kills others, including even his parents or his spiritual master or teacher. Therefore if one can give up his attachment to such a wife, he conquers the Supreme Personality of Godhead, who is never conquered by anyone.

7.14.13

कृमिविड्भस्मनिष्ठान्तं क्‍वेदं तुच्छं कलेवरम् । क्व‍ तदीयरतिर्भार्या क्व‍ायमात्मा नभश्छदि: ॥ १३ ॥

krmi-vid-bhasma-nisthantam kvedam tuccham kalevaram kva tadiya-ratir bharya kvayam atma nabhas-chadih

Through proper deliberation, one should give up attraction to his wife’s body because that body will ultimately be transformed into small insects, stool or ashes. What is the value of this insignificant body? How much greater is the Supreme Being, who is all-pervading like the sky?

7.14.14

सिद्धैर्यज्ञावशिष्टार्थै: कल्पयेद् वृत्तिमात्मन: । शेषे स्वत्वं त्यजन्प्राज्ञ: पदवीं महतामियात् ॥ १४ ॥

siddhair yajnavasistarthaih kalpayed vrttim atmanah sese svatvam tyajan prajnah padavim mahatam iyat

An intelligent person should be satisfied with eating prasada (food offered to the Lord) or with performing the five different kinds of yajna (panca-suna). By such activities, one can give up attachment for the body and so-called proprietorship with reference to the body. When one is able to do this, he is firmly fixed in the position of a mahatma.

7.14.15

देवानृषीन् नृभूतानि पितृनात्मानमन्वहम् । स्ववृत्त्यागतवित्तेन यजेत पुरुषं पृथक् ॥ १५ ॥

devan rsin nr-bhutani pitrn atmanam anvaham sva-vrttyagata-vittena yajeta purusam prthak

Every day, one should worship the Supreme Being who is situated in everyone’s heart, and on this basis one should separately worship the demigods, the saintly persons, ordinary human beings and living entities, one’s forefathers and one’s self. In this way one is able to worship the Supreme Being in the core of everyone’s heart.

7.14.16

यर्ह्यात्मनोऽधिकाराद्या: सर्वा: स्युर्यज्ञसम्पद: । वैतानिकेन विधिना अग्निहोत्रादिना यजेत् ॥ १६ ॥

yarhy atmano ’dhikaradyah sarvah syur yajna-sampadah vaitanikena vidhina agni-hotradina yajet

When one is enriched with wealth and knowledge which are under his full control and by means of which he can perform yajna or please the Supreme Personality of Godhead, one must perform sacrifices, offering oblations to the fire according to the directions of the sastras. In this way one should worship the Supreme Personality of Godhead.

7.14.17

न ह्यग्निमुखतोऽयं वै भगवान्सर्वयज्ञभुक् । इज्येत हविषा राजन्यथा विप्रमुखे हुतै: ॥ १७ ॥

na hy agni-mukhato ’yam vai bhagavan sarva-yajna-bhuk ijyeta havisa rajan yatha vipra-mukhe hutaih

The Supreme Personality of Godhead, Sri Krsna, is the enjoyer of sacrificial offerings. Yet although His Lordship eats the oblations offered in the fire, my dear King, He is still more satisfied when nice food made of grains and ghee is offered to Him through the mouths of qualified brahmanas.

7.14.18

तस्माद् ब्राह्मणदेवेषु मर्त्यादिषु यथार्हत: । तैस्तै: कामैर्यजस्वैनं क्षेत्रज्ञं ब्राह्मणाननु ॥ १८ ॥

tasmad brahmana-devesu martyadisu yatharhatah tais taih kamair yajasvainam ksetra-jnam brahmanan anu

Therefore, my dear King, first offer prasada unto the brahmanas and the demigods, and after sumptuously feeding them you may distribute prasada to other living entities according to your ability. In this way you will be able to worship all living entities—or, in other words, the supreme living entity within every living entity.

7.14.19

कुर्यादपरपक्षीयं मासि प्रौष्ठपदे द्विज: । श्राद्धं पित्रोर्यथावित्तं तद्बन्धूनां च वित्तवान् ॥ १९ ॥

kuryad apara-paksiyam masi praustha-pade dvijah sraddham pitror yatha-vittam tad-bandhunam ca vittavan

A brahmana who is sufficiently rich must offer oblations to the forefathers during the dark-moon fortnight in the latter part of the month of Bhadra. Similarly, he should offer oblations to the relatives of the forefathers during the mahalaya ceremonies in the month of Asvina.

7.14.20-23

अयने विषुवे कुर्याद् व्यतीपाते दिनक्षये । चन्द्रादित्योपरागे च द्वादश्यां श्रवणेषु च ॥ २० ॥ तृतीयायां शुक्लपक्षे नवम्यामथ कार्तिके । चतसृष्वप्यष्टकासु हेमन्ते शिशिरे तथा ॥ २१ ॥ माघे च सितसप्तम्यां मघाराकासमागमे । राकया चानुमत्या च मासर्क्षाणि युतान्यपि ॥ २२ ॥ द्वादश्यामनुराधा स्याच्छ्रवणस्तिस्र उत्तरा: । तिसृष्वेकादशी वासु जन्मर्क्षश्रोणयोगूयुक् ॥ २३ ॥

ayane visuve kuryad vyatipate dina-ksaye candradityoparage ca dvadasyam sravanesu ca trtiyayam sukla-pakse navamyam atha kartike catasrsv apy astakasu hemante sisire tatha maghe ca sita-saptamyam magha-raka-samagame rakaya canumatya ca masarksani yutany api dvadasyam anuradha syac chravanas tisra uttarah tisrsv ekadasi vasu janmarksa-srona-yoga-yuk

One should perform the sraddha ceremony on the Makara-sankranti [the day when the sun begins to move north] or on the Karkata-sankranti [the day when the sun begins to move south]. One should also perform this ceremony on the Mesa-sankranti day and the Tula-sankranti day, in the yoga named Vyatipata, on that day in which three lunar tithis are conjoined, during an eclipse of either the moon or the sun, on the twelfth lunar day, and in the Sravana-naksatra. One should perform this ceremony on the Aksaya-trtiya day, on the ninth lunar day of the bright fortnight of the month of Kartika, on the four astakas in the winter season and cool season, on the seventh lunar day of the bright fortnight of the month of Magha, during the conjunction of Magha-naksatra and the full-moon day, and on the days when the moon is completely full, or not quite completely full, when these days are conjoined with the naksatras from which the names of certain months are derived. One should also perform the sraddha ceremony on the twelfth lunar day when it is in conjunction with any of the naksatras named Anuradha, Sravana, Uttara-phalguni, Uttarasadha or Uttara-bhadrapada. Again, one should perform this ceremony when the eleventh lunar day is in conjunction with either Uttara-phalguni, Uttarasadha or Uttara-bhadrapada. Finally, one should perform this ceremony on days conjoined with one’s own birth star [janma-naksatra] or with Sravana-naksatra.

7.14.24

त एते श्रेयस: काला नृणां श्रेयोविवर्धना: । कुर्यात्सर्वात्मनैतेषु श्रेयोऽमोघं तदायुष: ॥ २४ ॥

ta ete sreyasah kala nrnam sreyo-vivardhanah kuryat sarvatmanaitesu sreyo ’mogham tad-ayusah

All of these seasonal times are considered extremely auspicious for humanity. At such times, one should perform all auspicious activities, for by such activities a human being attains success in his short duration of life.

7.14.25

एषु स्‍नानं जपो होमो व्रतं देवद्विजार्चनम् । पितृदेवनृभूतेभ्यो यद्दत्तं तद्ध्यनश्वरम् ॥ २५ ॥

esu snanam japo homo vratam deva-dvijarcanam pitr-deva-nr-bhutebhyo yad dattam tad dhy anasvaram

During these periods of seasonal change, if one bathes in the Ganges, in the Yamuna or in another sacred place, if one chants, offers fire sacrifices or executes vows, or if one worships the Supreme Lord, the brahmanas, the forefathers, the demigods and the living entities in general, whatever he gives in charity yields a permanently beneficial result.

7.14.26

संस्कारकालो जायाया अपत्यस्यात्मनस्तथा । प्रेतसंस्था मृताहश्च कर्मण्यभ्युदये नृप ॥ २६ ॥

samskara-kalo jayaya apatyasyatmanas tatha preta-samstha mrtahas ca karmany abhyudaye nrpa

O King Yudhisthira, at the time prescribed for reformatory ritualistic ceremonies for one’s self, one’s wife or one’s children, or during funeral ceremonies and annual death ceremonies, one must perform the auspicious ceremonies mentioned above in order to flourish in fruitive activities.

7.14.27-28

अथ देशान्प्रवक्ष्यामि धर्मादिश्रेयआवहान् । स वै पुण्यतमो देश: सत्पात्रं यत्र लभ्यते ॥ २७ ॥ बिम्बं भगवतो यत्र सर्वमेतच्चराचरम् । यत्र ह ब्राह्मणकुलं तपोविद्यादयान्वितम् ॥ २८ ॥

atha desan pravaksyami dharmadi-sreya-avahan sa vai punyatamo desah sat-patram yatra labhyate bimbam bhagavato yatra sarvam etac caracaram yatra ha brahmana-kulam tapo-vidya-dayanvitam

Narada Muni continued: Now I shall describe the places where religious performances may be well executed. Any place where a Vaisnava is available is an excellent place for all auspicious activities. The Supreme Personality of Godhead is the support of this entire cosmic manifestation, with all its moving and nonmoving living entities, and the temple where the Deity of the Lord is installed is a most sacred place. Furthermore, places where learned brahmanas observe Vedic principles by means of austerity, education and mercy are also most auspicious and sacred.

7.14.29

यत्र यत्र हरेरर्चा स देश: श्रेयसां पदम् । यत्र गङ्गादयो नद्य: पुराणेषु च विश्रुता: ॥ २९ ॥

yatra yatra harer arca sa desah sreyasam padam yatra gangadayo nadyah puranesu ca visrutah

Auspicious indeed are the places where there is a temple of the Supreme Personality of Godhead, Krsna, in which He is duly worshiped, and also the places where there flow the celebrated sacred rivers mentioned in the Puranas, the supplementary Vedic literatures. Anything spiritual done there is certainly very effective.

7.14.30-33

सरांसि पुष्करादीनि क्षेत्राण्यर्हाश्रितान्युत । कुरुक्षेत्रं गयशिर: प्रयाग: पुलहाश्रम: ॥ ३० ॥ नैमिषं फाल्गुनं सेतु: प्रभासोऽथ कुशस्थली । वाराणसी मधुपुरी पम्पा बिन्दुसरस्तथा ॥ ३१ ॥ नारायणाश्रमो नन्दा सीतारामाश्रमादय: । सर्वे कुलाचला राजन्महेन्द्रमलयादय: ॥ ३२ ॥ एते पुण्यतमा देशा हरेरर्चाश्रिताश्च ये । एतान्देशान्निषेवेत श्रेयस्कामो ह्यभीक्ष्णश: । धर्मो ह्यत्रेहित: पुंसां सहस्राधिफलोदय: ॥ ३३ ॥

saramsi puskaradini ksetrany arhasritany uta kuruksetram gaya-sirah prayagah pulahasramah naimisam phalgunam setuh prabhaso ’tha kusa-sthali varanasi madhu-puri pampa bindu-saras tatha narayanasramo nanda sita-ramasramadayah sarve kulacala rajan mahendra-malayadayah ete punyatama desa harer arcasritas ca ye etan desan niseveta sreyas-kamo hy abhiksnasah dharmo hy atrehitah pumsam sahasradhi-phalodayah

The sacred lakes like Puskara and places where saintly persons live, like Kuruksetra, Gaya, Prayaga, Pulahasrama, Naimisaranya, the banks of the Phalgu River, Setubandha, Prabhasa, Dvaraka, Varanasi, Mathura, Pampa, Bindu-sarovara, Badarikasrama [Narayanasrama], the places where the Nanda River flows, the places where Lord Ramacandra and mother Sita took shelter, such as Citrakuta, and also the hilly tracts of land known as Mahendra and Malaya — all of these are to be considered most pious and sacred. Similarly, places outside India where there are centers of the Krsna consciousness movement and where Radha-Krsna Deities are worshiped must all be visited and worshiped by those who want to be spiritually advanced. One who intends to advance in spiritual life may visit all these places and perform ritualistic ceremonies to get results a thousand times better than the results of the same activities performed in any other place.

7.14.34

पात्रं त्वत्र निरुक्तं वै कविभि: पात्रवित्तमै: । हरिरेवैक उर्वीश यन्मयं वै चराचरम् ॥ ३४ ॥

patram tv atra niruktam vai kavibhih patra-vittamaih harir evaika urvisa yan-mayam vai caracaram

O King of the earth, it has been decided by expert, learned scholars that only the Supreme Personality of Godhead, Krsna, in whom all that is moving or nonmoving within this universe is resting and from whom everything is coming, is the best person to whom everything must be given.

7.14.35

देवर्ष्यर्हत्सु वै सत्सु तत्र ब्रह्मात्मजादिषु । राजन्यदग्रपूजायां मत: पात्रतयाच्युत: ॥ ३५ ॥

devarsy-arhatsu vai satsu tatra brahmatmajadisu rajan yad agra-pujayam matah patratayacyutah

O King Yudhisthira, the demigods, many great sages and saints including even the four sons of Lord Brahma, and I myself were present at your Rajasuya sacrificial ceremony, but when there was a question of who should be the first person worshiped, everyone decided upon Lord Krsna, the Supreme Person.

7.14.36

जीवराशिभिराकीर्ण अण्डकोशाङ्‌घ्रिपो महान् । तन्मूलत्वादच्युतेज्या सर्वजीवात्मतर्पणम् ॥ ३६ ॥

jiva-rasibhir akirna anda-kosanghripo mahan tan-mulatvad acyutejya sarva-jivatma-tarpanam

The entire universe, which is full of living entities, is like a tree whose root is the Supreme Personality of Godhead, Acyuta (Krsna). Therefore simply by worshiping Lord Krsna one can worship all living entities.

7.14.37

पुराण्यनेन सृष्टानि नृतिर्यगृषिदेवता: । शेते जीवेन रूपेण पुरेषु पुरुषो ह्यसौ ॥ ३७ ॥

purany anena srstani nr-tiryag-rsi-devatah sete jivena rupena puresu puruso hy asau

The Supreme Personality of Godhead has created many residential places like the bodies of human beings, animals, birds, saints and demigods. In all of these innumerable bodily forms, the Lord resides with the living being as Paramatma. Thus He is known as the purusavatara.

7.14.38

तेष्वेव भगवान् राजंस्तारतम्येन वर्तते । तस्मात्पात्रं हि पुरुषो यावानात्मा यथेयते ॥ ३८ ॥

tesv eva bhagavan rajams taratamyena vartate tasmat patram hi puruso yavan atma yatheyate

O King Yudhisthira, the Supersoul in every body gives intelligence to the individual soul according to his capacity for understanding. Therefore the Supersoul is the chief within the body. The Supersoul is manifested to the individual soul according to the individual’s comparative development of knowledge, austerity, penance and so on.

7.14.39

द‍ृष्ट्वा तेषां मिथो नृणामवज्ञानात्मतां नृप । त्रेतादिषु हरेरर्चा क्रियायै कविभि: कृता ॥ ३९ ॥

drstva tesam mitho nrnam avajnanatmatam nrpa tretadisu harer arca kriyayai kavibhih krta

My dear King, when great sages and saintly persons saw mutually disrespectful dealings at the beginning of Treta-yuga, Deity worship in the temple was introduced with all paraphernalia.

7.14.40

ततोऽर्चायां हरिं केचित् संश्रद्धाय सपर्यया । उपासत उपास्तापि नार्थदा पुरुषद्विषाम् ॥ ४० ॥

tato ’rcayam harim kecit samsraddhaya saparyaya upasata upastapi narthada purusa-dvisam

Sometimes a neophyte devotee offers all the paraphernalia for worshiping the Lord, and he factually worships the Lord as the Deity, but because he is envious of the authorized devotees of Lord Visnu, the Lord is never satisfied with his devotional service.

7.14.41

पुरुषेष्वपि राजेन्द्र सुपात्रं ब्राह्मणं विदु: । तपसा विद्यया तुष्टय‍ा धत्ते वेदं हरेस्तनुम् ॥ ४१ ॥

purusesv api rajendra supatram brahmanam viduh tapasa vidyaya tustya dhatte vedam hares tanum

My dear King, of all persons a qualified brahmana must be accepted as the best within this material world because such a brahmana, by practicing austerity, Vedic studies and satisfaction, becomes the counterpart body of the Supreme Personality of Godhead.

7.14.42

नन्वस्य ब्राह्मणा राजन्कृष्णस्य जगदात्मन: । पुनन्त: पादरजसा त्रिलोकीं दैवतं महत् ॥ ४२ ॥

nanv asya brahmana rajan krsnasya jagad-atmanah punantah pada-rajasa tri-lokim daivatam mahat

My dear King Yudhisthira, the brahmanas, especially those engaged in preaching the glories of the Lord throughout the entire world, are recognized and worshiped by the Supreme Personality of Godhead, who is the heart and soul of all creation. The brahmanas, by their preaching, sanctify the three worlds with the dust of their lotus feet, and thus they are worshipable even for Krsna.