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Srimad Bhagavatam 6.5.41

6.5.41

नानुभूय न जानाति पुमान् विषयतीक्ष्णताम् । निर्विद्यते स्वयं तस्मान्न तथा भिन्नधी: परै: ॥ ४१ ॥

nanubhuya na janati puman visaya-tiksnatam nirvidyate svayam tasman na tatha bhinna-dhih paraih

na
not
anubhuya
experiencing
na
not
janati
knows
puman
a person
visaya-tiksnatam
the sharpness of material enjoyment
nirvidyate
becomes aloof
svayam
himself
tasmat
from that
na tatha
not like that
bhinna-dhih
whose intelligence is changed
paraih
by others.

Material enjoyment is indeed the cause of all unhappiness, but one cannot give it up unless one has personally experienced how much suffering it is. Therefore one should be allowed to remain in so-called material enjoyment while simultaneously advancing in knowledge to experience the misery of this false material happiness. Then, without help from others, one will find material enjoyment detestful. Those whose minds are changed by others do not become as renounced as those who have personal experience.